Perfectionist Blogging: Not for me

Fortune Cookie Perfection

Credit to (nutmeg )

I’m a bad blogger.  Alot of the people I follow on Twitter, other blogs and such are “big” bloggers, or are in it to BE “big” bloggers.  I’m really not.  I mean ya, who doesn’t fantasize about being the next Dooce, or getting a book deal, or the other connections that can come about from blogging?  The downside of that is, I don’t want to be a big blogger, I want to sew.  I started this blog as a way to record things about my kids, and our lives, projects I’ve made and just my general rambly thoughts.

But all too often I don’t blog at all because I think “Oh no one cares about this thing my kid did” or “is this post good enough to lead to something bigger and better?”.  It’s an evil cycle, because I do want to see my  business grow, but it’s not going to happen overnight, and this blog needs to be for me, and my family first and foremost.  Giving people a glimpse into the crazy that is my life.

*This post has been a work in progress for the last few weeks, and now I’m deciding to finish and post it.  I attended WordCamp Chicago this past weekend, and my thoughts were validated, so well, here’s the rest.

I know I”m not the first (and most certainly won’t be the last) person to struggle with the whole “I’m not good enough thing”.  But you know what? You ARE good enough!  And so am I!  I was told over and over this weekend as I talked to other bloggers about the perfectionist struggles that you can’t be all things to all people.  That’s absolutely right.  I can WANT to be, but I just end up feeling like I’m spinning my wheels and doing nothing for anyone.

So I resolve this..I will blog.  I’m not sure I can be a “niche blogger” (meaning I only blog about one topic), because I’m an eclectic person.  But I will blog the things I sew, the things I’m thinking, and whatever else I want to share.  It may not be good enough for a book deal, but it’s good enough for me.

7 tips for every new blogger

Image courtesy of Flickr user inf

Image courtesy of Flickr user inf

My new blogging mentor, Kelli from 3 Boys and a Dog has been super awesome about helping me as I set on the path to really learn how to use my blog.  To bring to my readers all the things I love-God, my family, sewing, tutorials and awesome stuff I find as I wander around the Web.  She sent me a starting off to-do list which I’m working on crossing things off.  I thought it might be helpful for other new bloggers who are just starting to learn the ropes like me!

  1. Add Google Friend Connect to your blog.  This one is new to me, I’ve seen it on a few blogs but I’m not really familiar with the hows/whys of using it…YET!
  2. Go to your Twitter page, and make sure you are following everyone who follows you.  A good tool for this is Social Oomph I found out tonight.  They have an “auto follow” feature which will automatically do this for you.  They have a bunch of other tools as well, but so far this is the only one I’m using.  Also, when you make a connection with someone and get chatting, follow them-I’m sure they’ll have some awesome tweets to share!
  3. Whatever your niche is (crafting, frugal blogging, mommy blogging, etc.), go to google and type in the main keyword.  Mine for example, is “sewing”.  The first Google result is Sew, Mama, Sew.  Make sure whatever comes up for you is first in your reader.  I’ve been a long time reader of SMS, so this one was easy for me!
  4. Google Analytics.  I admit, this one is another mind boggler for me.  I’m not the most tech savvy person out there (thank God for my friend, Ema, who does all of my tech geeky stuff for me-I’d be lost without her!), and while I know it will be interesting to see where all my readers are coming from and what they are looking at, well, I have alot to learn!
  5. Organization.  Definitely NOT one of my strong points.  Most of the time my ADD takes over and I flit from shiny thing to shiny thing without ever accomplishing much of anything!  I’m going to check out Google Reminders today and see what I think of that, as a paper calendar doesn’t work well for me, I forget to look at it.  Do you have a recommendation of something that really helps you stay organized? Please share!
  6. Describe your blog in 140 characters.  Kelli says this is not JUST for Twitter, but also for other places that just want a “blurb” about your blog.  I’m still working on this one.  It’s a definite challenge for me!
  7. Create a list of keywords you use in your blog.  I’m guessing at this point that this is for beginning to “SEO” my blog-stands for Search Engine Optimization-so people can find me! She recommends www.gorank.com to help decide what keywords to use.  Then use at least one of those words in every post.  Each month, check your Google Analytics and see what words people are using to find you.  Start using THOSE keywords from that point and recheck it once a month or so.

As you can see, this is a pretty good starting point for a new blogger! Kelli has a Blogging Basics series on her blog that I’ll be delving into as well, but I have to finish my to-do list first!

Welcome to my new pad!

I’m still figuring out the nuts and bolts over here, but I’m SO excited to finally be the happy owner of my own domain! I’ve been following the #savvyblogging hashtag on Twitter (you can follow me @froggygirletsy, and MAN is there alot of info there!  One of the very  main things they talk about are the benefits of owning your own domain.  I’ve been wanting to for awhile, but had to wait for froggygirl.com to become available.  So it did, and here I am!  Now, to find my way around WordPress!  If anyone has any hints or tips, PLEASE pass them along in the comments section, I’m a sponge!

Baby legwarmers from Gymboree socks

Baby legwarmers from Gymboree socks

So anyway, back at the homestead…I’ve been busy, busy, busy working away on all manner of projects.  I made a new pair of babylegs for Ree from a pair of cute Gymboree knee socks I bought last year to match an outfit I found on super cheap clearance.  I can’t wait to get it on her, she’s going to be adorable!

mama cloth

I’ve also been working on making some more mama cloth.  When I first started using it, I used the pattern from She Who Runs.  While it’s perfect for use as a liner, it doesn’t handle  heavier days well.  So in my quest for the perfect pattern, I asked opinions of my friends over at Diaper Sewing Divas.  One of the girls there had drafted this pattern, and it looked perfect to me!  I sewed a few up and used them..I LOVE them!  These are simply a top layer of flannel (the middle one is a cotton woven though), an inner layer of cotton batting, and the last layer is Cuddle Dry Micro Fleece.  They’re fabulous!  I need to make up a few more yet, but I probably won’t get to it anytime real soon!

Sneaky peeky!

Sneaky peeky!

And this is a little sneak peek of my current big project.  I’ll be posting more on this later, this is just to whet your appetite.  Look at all that scrumptious fabric!

So what  have you been up to?  Any exciting new projects?  Those of you working on the decluttering challenge-how are you doing?  I’ll be posting an update on that in the next few days.  I still need to figure out how to do my sidebar on WordPress so none of my information is up yet, so tell me how YOU are doing!